You Hurt My Feelings (2023) | Rotten Tomatoes (2024)

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From acclaimed filmmaker Nicole Holofcener comes a sharply observed comedy about a novelist whose long standing marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband give his honest reaction to her latest book. A film about trust, lies, and the things we say to the people we love most.

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Critics Consensus

Smart, funny, and above all entertaining, You Hurt My Feelings finds writer-director Nicole Holofcener as sharply perceptive as ever.

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You Hurt My Feelings is well-acted and sometimes funny, but it's also slow -- and it can be hard to care about the problems of some fairly unlikable characters.

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Tim Robey

Daily Telegraph (UK)

The film is mature, relatable and risks being terminally uncool – full of evident chagrin from Holofcener that she can’t be a new voice these days, but also comfortably embracing the old one.

Rated: 3/5

Aug 10, 2023

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Larushka Ivan-Zadeh

metro.co.uk

The film is ultimately saved by a self-awareness of its own absurdly privileged viewpoint.

Rated: 4/5

Aug 8, 2023

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Iana Murray

Empire Magazine

A delightful, hilarious and deeply human film about the innate contradictions we refuse to accept.

Rated: 4/5

Aug 8, 2023

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Andrew Galdi

Movie Bitches

Its watchable, it’s charming, it just doesn’t have that much to say

Rated: B

Apr 24, 2024

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Ezequiel Boetti

Otroscines.com

A movie with deeply humanist roots that relies on the remarkable performance of Louis-Dreyfus, one of those artists who acts without seeming like she's performing. [Full review in Spanish]

Rated: 3.5/5

Apr 5, 2024

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Philip Concannon

The Skinny

Julia Louis-Dreyfus plays Beth’s sense of betrayal beautifully – it’s hilarious, but rooted in real pain. It again makes you wonder why she hasn’t had more opportunities to carry a film.

Rated: 4/5

Feb 7, 2024

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Judy Comedy, action, drama Rated 0.5/5 Stars • Rated 0.5 out of 5 stars 07/24/23 Full Review Engin O Really sweet, entertaining, endearing, and hilarious comedy. Wonderful movie Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 07/21/23 Full Review Jessica B Cute story I really like Julia Louis-Dreyfus. I liked her husband's interactions with his patients and Julia's relationship with her sister and mother. The story was a bit surface, but an enjoyable movie. Rated 4/5 Stars • Rated 4 out of 5 stars 07/16/23 Full Review Clay and Sujata Thought provoking, touching, kind, and beautifully acted. Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 07/08/23 Full Review Charles D I expected this to be a chick flick but found it to be a good story line I could relate to. Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 06/17/23 Full Review Kelly very funny & kept your interest Rated 5/5 Stars • Rated 5 out of 5 stars 06/16/23 Full Review Read all reviews Post a rating

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Nicole Holofcener Director Julia Louis-Dreyfus Beth Tobias Menzies Don Michaela Watkins Sarah Arian Moayed Mark Owen Teague Eliot

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Synopsis From acclaimed filmmaker Nicole Holofcener comes a sharply observed comedy about a novelist whose long standing marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband give his honest reaction to her latest book. A film about trust, lies, and the things we say to the people we love most.

Director: Nicole Holofcener
Producer: Stefanie Azpiazu, Anthony Bregman, Nicole Holofcener, Julia Louis-Dreyfus
Screenwriter: Nicole Holofcener
Distributor: A24
Production Co: FilmNation Entertainment, Likely Story
Rating: R (Language)
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Original Language: English
Release Date (Theaters): May 26, 2023, Wide
Release Date (Streaming): Jun 22, 2023
Box Office (Gross USA): $3.8M
Runtime: 1h 33m
Sound Mix: Dolby Digital

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